I'm not sure who you are but I would like to say I'm very very sorry from the bottom of my heart! 2009-2010 have been the absolute worst years of my life since 1996 when my brother died of a heroin overdose and I shattered my knee one month later ending any chance of a career in sports.
In 2009 I filed for divorce and it was a battle to say the least! I lost my partner, my best friend, my world because her and I lost twins in 2007 (one baby at 3 months and the second at 6 months) so you can imagine the pain we both endured. We both lost two babies but we also lost our connection and from there our marriage went down hill to say the least! Her family borrowed a large sum of money from me (my family is not rich, I'm not a trust fund child and I'm self taught, self made and self paid) so when they filed Bankruptcy that absolutely devastated me and crushed me inside! My ex had a spending problem and with the real estate market decreasing, my marriage failing, my in-laws ripping me off, and the pain inside of loosing two children, my brother and my wife I hit ROCK BOTTOM! I started trusting no one and inside I was so hurt, depressed and didn't know who I could turn to or how I was going to ever get my feet back on the ground and rebuild. I lost EVERYTHING... my spouse, my 1.5 acre ranch (my dream home), my two custom trucks I built (forced to sell so I could pay off credit card debt/spousal support per court divorce), my Rolex watch (was a gift but had to sell to pay of debt), and the list goes on.
I now rent a small home in Oak View (trying to save while paying off the last $24k in debt from my divorce, live with my two dogs, have a beautiful girlfriend of (who is a firefighter/ Engineer for 11 Years) and has helped me realize what is important, what isn't and how to admit your mistakes, learn from them and try to better yourself. Today, I feel I am a better person and that is why I can admit that I was probably and a-hole/jerk and that is not me nor is that okay in anyway! I'm truly sorry and although I'm 32 years old I'm still learning each and every day and when I came across this note it made me sad and also upset that I treated you that way so please accept my apology and I hope you can understand and forgive me in my actions.
Thank you for posting this as it will always remind me to put aside what's going on in my life and focus on the client as your so vital to our business and I'm sure you do have another agent which I deserve but I just want you to know that this Nate Minkel is very sorry!!
Coldwell Banker Property ShoppeNMinkel@Gmail.com